If you are planning on moving into a camper or RV, even part time, downsizing is a must. 100% you HAVE to do it. Otherwise, you will end up with this:
Everyone has their area that gets out of control easily or the area of things that they just can’t let go of. I know several women that have wardrobes completely packed full that are as large as my entire bedroom. I’m not one of them. However, I have an affinity for keeping things that “might” someday have a purpose. Toilet paper rolls, shredded paper, plastic trays, the list can be endless….but the good news for me is that I have no emotional attachment to them. That lack of attachment makes purging much, much easier.
Step 1 – Remove the Emotional Attachment
So Step 1 is to do what you can to remove the emotional attachment that you have to “things”. They are just things. They don’t actually hold any emotional value. It is us as emotional humans that attach that value to objects. If you absolutely need that item to maintain a memory, take several pictures of the item, and store those pictures in several safe places. Then GET RID of the item, especially if its only purpose is a nostalgic one. Granted, I have a box with my father’s ashes that is still on top of my refrigerator, so my sway only goes so far. But overall, getting rid of junk gets easier when we can distance ourselves from that junk and view it objectively. When you can clearly determine whether or not you use something, or genuinely need something, without having to try and battle an emotional connection to the same object, the purge will go smoother.
Step 2 – Develop A Plan
Step 2 is to have a clear plan for where the purged object will go. Do you have a consignment shop nearby? Are you going to have a yard sale? Will your local charity take donations? It is important to do your research before you begin and have a clear plan for where your junk will go, and how it will be rehomed. Granted, a large roll-off dumpster would work just as well, but I don’t recommend it, as it is about as far from recycling as you can get. Get your plan in place, and your rehoming list ready, and if you live near someone who runs a resale shop you might get some change for it.
Step 3 – Move Objects to their “Going Away” Piles
Step 3 is to begin placing things in piles. We have enough space that we were able to designate rather large areas for each rehoming option. One was an area for a consignment shop, one area for donations, etc, etc. You get the picture. Sorry, it’s pretty scary, so I didn’t take a picture of our junk. Go through areas of the house one at a time and go through absolutely EVERY object. I’m talking don’t miss anything here. ESPECIALLY if you are going to be fulltime RVing. There just isn’t room, so you will need to meticulously question each object. Does it fulfill you in some way? Is it helpful enough to justify the space it takes up? Does it serve more than one purpose, or can you use it in nontraditional ways? These are all questions that you may go through in the purge process. If the answer is “Maybe”, then the answer is “Get rid of it!”
Wardrobes are the trickiest for most women, and I found this amazing video from Allison Anderson that gives great tips on how to pare that down to just the things that you LOVE plus the basics to go with those items.
You can check it out below if you need a little extra motivation and tips to help you get through that ginormous closet.
Then…..Get Rid Of It!!!!!!!
Alright, so hopefully by now you’ve got your plan for each pile mapped, that piles have grown, and you are ready to start getting rid of stuff and filling your RV. Great! But guess what…..chances are…you will need to do the whole process AGAIN at least two or three times before you pare down enough to fit yourself comfortably in your RV. Don’t be discouraged! We live in a commercial society that forces the ideas of purchasing junk on us constantly, and therefore we are continously battling the junk bulge. Just keep purging away, and make sure everything you keep will further your adventures.